Those three words are my New Year's resolution. I really love this
article by Dallin H. Oaks. He teaches that although a certain activity or hobby may be a "good" way to spend our time or other resources, there is usually another option that is better or, even, the best option. He gives this example of when Christ visited Mary and Martha:
"Jesus taught this principle in the home of Martha. While she was “cumbered about much serving” (Luke 10:40), her sister, Mary, “sat at Jesus’ feet, and heard his word” (v. 39). When Martha complained that her sister had left her to serve alone, Jesus commended Martha for what she was doing (v. 41) but taught her that “one thing is needful: and Mary hath chosen that good part, which shall not be taken away from her” (v. 42). It was praiseworthy for Martha to be “careful and troubled about many things” (v. 41), but learning the gospel from the Master Teacher was more “needful.” The scriptures contain other teachings that some things are more blessed than others (see Acts 20:35; Alma 32:14–15)."
So that's my focus this year. I know I should just go ahead and shoot for the "best", but I'm not going to disappoint myself, and I'm just going to do
better.